With Father's Day approaching in a few weeks and the cold fact I have not been able to speak to my daughter in over five years, I have but one wish. I want Stephanie to call me! Each day that passes without hearing from her is another heartbreak. I'm pretty sure she has web access. I'm pretty sure she has been on this site. Stephanie, please read the following:
There are a couple of things that need to be clarified. First, I never spoke out about Scientology until AFTER I was unable to contact you. In fact, in was almost two years after I assisted Marc in his departure. (I would have done the same for you and still would!)
Second, as your father I feel obligated to look out for your best interests. It does not end when you reach the age of 21. It never ends. Do I always know what is best? Not necessarily. I don't have all the answers and have never claimed to know it all. I can assure you, however, in this case I absolutely know best. Disconnecting from your family will never be in your best interest! Disagreeing with family members is your right. You should always feel free to speak your mind. I also have that right. The fact that I disagree with the choice you have made for a religion to follow does not mean I don't want you in my life. Communicating with me does not require you agree with me. There will come a time you will regret the disconnection. It may not be tomorrow or the next day, but it will come. Never seeing your nephews while they are in the cutest years of their lives will haunt you. Never speaking to your brother and hearing his side of the story leaves you not knowing all the facts.
Third, you are following a path that is clearly frowned upon by Scientology! You have allowed your actions to be influenced by third party data. Your superiors in Scientology "say" Marc is a criminal. They "say" I am a suppressive person. They "say" your eternal salvation would be in jeopardy if you speak to us. You are too intelligent to believe such crap! The mere fact that Marc and Claire are thriving and are happier than ever is direct proof that your superiors couldn't be more wrong.
Fourth, look around. Question what you are told. Scientology is shrinking, not growing. Big buildings and lavish events are NOT evidence of growth. Not only are more and more public Scientologists leaving every day, there are top executives that have left and continue to leave. Why? Because current management of the "church" under David Miscavige is totally corrupt. Never mind the teachings. Never mind the philosophy. Those concepts are things that one is free to believe or not. The practices of management, however, are clear violations of law and basic humane behavior. If Scientology wants to "clear the planet" why do they make it so expensive? Why are Sea Org members forced to live spartan existences while executives lead lavish lives? Because it is a money machine and nothing more.
Last, but certainly not least, ask your mother a few questions. Why was she escorted out of a meeting by security when she questioned a new policy? Why was she suddenly offloaded after Marc left? Why was she on the RPF for so many years while writing letters daily to have her case reviewed? She was not a happy camper in spite of what she may say. Her own inabaility to she how badly she was treated is not a good testament to Scientology. In fact, it is further proof of the brainwashing that takes place. I know how bright and caring she once was. It is truly sad to see how she has been manipulated into following a course that is sure to damage her spiritual well being, not save it. I really do not want the same for you.
In closing, I need to make one last statement. I will never stop loving you and caring about you and your mother. I will fight these injustices until my last breath if necesary. Not just in my own case, but for all the disconnected families around the world. So, Stephanie, why not take a chance and really make a huge difference this Father's Day? Call me and make it the best Father's Day I have ever had.
Love ya,
Dad
PS You don't have to wait for Father's Day. You can also call for free with Skype. Email me for my Skype name and include something only you would know so I can verify it is really you.
