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Stephanie Headley
Do you know Stephanie?  Do you know where she is?  Can you contact her? 
Stephanie is my daughter.  I have not been able to speak with her for over three years!  I helped her brother escape Scientology and as soon as it was determined he and his wife came to me, I was unable to reach her.  I was even told they didn't know who she was!  I didn't even know where she was for a couple of years, but have received information that she is currently in Toronto and recently got married.  I got that information fourth hand, though, and have not been able to confirm it or get any further details.  I do know she was "offloaded" from the Scientology Gold base (which is basically the same as being "fired") and she is no longer on staff.
Stephanie has a two year old nephew she has never seen, or for that matter, I'm not even sure she knows about him.
Another nephew added 2/27/08!  Her mother, Trudy, who is also an "offloaded" Sea Org Scientologist, has never seen her grandsons.  She also has not spoken to her own son for at least three years! 
My son's wife has family that live within minutes of them and they have not spoken to them either.  Her mother has never seen her grandson.  Just because my son and his wife decided to leave Scientology!  Just because I helped them!  Just because we disagree with Scientology! 
Stephanie, if you happen to see this, please call me.  I miss you.  I never imagined it would ever come to this.  I can only hope you miss your brother and me as much as we miss you.  You will be welcomed by your family.  Your aunts, uncles and cousins miss you.  Your grandmother misses you.  Is Scientology more important than us?  Do you really think you have been treated fairly? 
I know you must have witnessed many of the atrocities your brother saw while at the base.  I know you care about doing the right thing. I know you are smarter than those you are following.  Has Scientology ever delivered on any of the promises it has made?  What do you have to show for all the long hours and meager pay?  How big is the freeloader debt the church slapped you with?  Is breaking up families the solution to the world's problems?  Is lying about critics the path to spiritual freedom?  Are you truly free? You can be.  You just have to decide to be free and it will happen.  We can help.  We will help.  We want to help.
You must know in your heart I would never, ever do anything to harm you.  You must know how much I love you.  You must know I only have your best interests at heart.
Love,
Dad
aka Bernie, The Bernster
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Stephanie is 34 years old, but looks like she is 14!
Special Note:
Thanks to all who have linked to this page when commenting on media articles and webcasts.  And an extra special thanks to machwon/Charity Stohr at SL Church of Enturbulation!
New Information!  October 1, 2008
Stephanie's married name is Lantiegne (husband: Robert)
Her address is the same as the Toronto org.
Sent flowers and chocolates for her birthday on Oct. 2nd and sent letter with contact info the following week.  No response yet, but hoping!